Trust is paramount in any relationship, especially so in a love relationship.
When I was once young and reckless (ok, I am not so young anymore but maybe still reckless sometimes), I had put this paramount trust in jeopardy a few times, and I learned my lessons.
All it takes is a little misstep. No matter how small that misstep is, once the boundary is crossed, the trust between two individuals is breached.
Have a forgiving heart. Give the one next you a chance to make it right.
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Thoughts, random thoughts mostly. I guess it's a good idea that I write them down. Just in case...
5 comments:
Hmm...I think it depends on what the "problem" was.
No simple answer here, my friend.
If it was a small problem or misunderstanding, yeah, we normally would forgive.
But if it involved something more serious such as having an affair with another person, or using "fake" love/friendship to cheat your money or other benefits, well, it would be very tough.
Forgiveness is the only way to move on.
a person can choose to forgive or to simply move on w/o the person who lied. tough issue and quite often convoluted. good luck.
I, for one, wondered if I had really forgiven the one who offended me, or I just chose to ignore it and moved on.
I might well just lied to myself and pretended that I had forgiven the person...
But honestly, the feeling was no longer the same.
May be 20 years later I may not have that feeling anymore...
really. have to forgive, at least for your own sake.
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