Tuesday, June 26, 2007

To my dear friend

You know... we do make an amazing number of decisions in our surprising short life. Granted, some of the decisions we have made or will be making are definitely right or definitely wrong. However, a majority of the decisions is in this gray area where there is no absolute right and wrong. Maybe time will tell. But I do believe that we can always learn something from the decisions that we've made. It is this learning experience that helps shape our character, our value, and our future. Without this experience, we might as well be living in a green house where we'd be sheltered from all the elements. We grow as we learn as we experience. The most important thing is to move forward in life, taking one step at a time. Only look back when you need to learn from your previous mistakes and to draw motivation, but never dwell in the past. What happened in the past, stay in the past.

We create our own cloud nine!

2 comments:

CW said...

It's nature. Animals and human beings learn and learn from a lesson. That's what learning history is all about. You create your own history and once a decision is made, it's made. Just to know that you made a RIGHT decision today, and 10 years later you might think it was not a RIGHT decision, and same as WRONG decision. It was a decision that you feel it's the 'best' for you at THIS TIME. Cheers!

Jasper222 said...

well.. thanks guys.. i mean... .lately i'm just feeling i'm making decisions which may not be the best... sigh...

anyway, afterall maybe it's better now - something that I should have done a LONGGGGGGG time back :(