Thursday, April 12, 2007

A piece of advice

I asked my good friend why it is so hard to find someone whom I can share my life with?

She replied

b/c
- you're unique
- you won't treasure her as much if it's easy
- and if it's so easy she won't be special and unique?!~

Very true.

6 comments:

Anonymous said...

Let me know your feeling after you hear this song.

"She's always a woman to me" by Billy Joel

She can kill with a smile
She can wound with her eyes
She can ruin your faith with her casual lies
And she only reveals what she wants you to see
She hides like a child
But she's always a woman to me

She can lead you to love
She can take you or leave you
She can ask for the truth
But she'll never believe you
And she'll take what you give her as long as it's free
She steals like a thief
But she's always a woman to me

Oh, she takes care of herself
She can wait if she wants
She's ahead of her time
Oh, and she never gives out
And she never gives in
She just changes her mind

She will promise you more
Than the Garden of Eden
Then she'll carelessly cut you
And laugh while you're bleedin'
But she'll bring out the best
And the worst you can be
Blame it all on yourself
Cause she's always a woman to me

She is frequently kind
And she's suddenly cruel
She can do as she pleases
She's nobody's fool
But she can't be convicted
She's earned her degree
And the most she will do
Is throw shadows at you
But she's always a woman to me

WittyBB said...

You really don't find someone, or search for the person. It's destiny that you will run into or meet someone in your life ...

JC said...

william:

billy joel did a wonderful job summing up how a man feels and thinks about his woman (from a man's perspective of course!). the best lines are--
"But she'll bring out the best
And the worst you can be
Blame it all on yourself
Cause she's always a woman to me"

connie:

destiny == God's plan
we'd like to control everything but we don't realize how little we have control over.

Jasper222 said...

was just reading appledaily today and found this article:

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網友直擊:拖友大申訴 戀愛生活苦苦苦

私人時間減少了、使費是單身的四倍、晚晚「勁煲電話粥」、跟其他朋友疏遠了……這些似曾相識,甚至感同身受的情景,是高登討論區的網友回應「分享拍拖 gae 苦況」時吐出來的苦水。網友還說:「受氣、開支大,呢兩樣都玩謝你!」「受氣時候最慘,明明冇做錯 yeh 都要俾人鬧,仲要唔出得聲,冇得駁嘴。」「佢做錯,你鬧佢,佢喊,你 tup 番佢。」

滿腹牢騷的千層糕說:「講 D 唔arm 聽說話就鬧鬼你,佢錯又唔認,要人 tup 。好喇,tup喇,佢又話無誠意。冇晒時間,又話唔想阻住我讀書,又打電話lai 話好悶,同佢傾一陣ok…… fine,傾傾傾…… 一傾兩粒鐘,我係咁話收 線,佢話『你唔錫我喇,電話都唔同我傾』,又係我錯,好yeh! 」

搵好伴侶先認識自己
最後,網友無賴皇總結說:「拍 jor 咁多次拖,先至領悟到無論對方幾索、身材幾好,全部都係過眼雲煙,甚至有人話對方性格幾好,或者幾唔好,亦都唔係擇偶原則。最緊要就係有共同興趣、共同生活習慣,正如好多賊公賊婆一樣可以愛到天荒愛未老。反之,富家子配富家女亦未必可以白頭到老。所以要搵個好伴侶,首先要認識自己。」

CPMF14 said...

JC - keep trying ;-)

Jasper - very interesting article. I wonder if the guys talked about the ladies in HK or ladies up north of the border.

Jasper222 said...

cp, i think it's mostly refer to Kongese girls... you didn't know how "spicy" we're?! kekekekekekek

i don't agree w/ the most part of the article, but do agree w/ the last sentence "所以要搵個好伴侶,首先要認識自己。"